Misasa yezhizha inosimudzira kujairika muvana, kudzidza kunowana

GADZIRA KUTI Uzvidzore, Shanda kana Kubatsira Vamwe: Kuva nehunyanzvi hwepamoyo kwakakosha kune avo vanoda kufambidzana zvakanaka nevezera ravo. Aya hunyanzvi anowanikwa zvakanyanya panguva yeudiki uye anogona kudzidziswa mumamiriro ezvinhu akasiyana, akadai sechikoro, mhuri kana yekuzorora.

Chikwata chinobva kuYunivhesiti yeGeneva (Ungei) yakaratidza kuti misasa yezororo inoda kuvandudzwa kwavo. Vakawana kuwedzera kwekusagutsikana pakati pevana vanodzoka kubva kumisasa, kusiyana nevaya vasina kutora chikamu mune urwu rudzi rwemazororo avo. Izvi zvawanikwa zvinogona kuwanikwa mubhuku renhoroondo imwe .

Kuziva nzira yekuziva uye kugadzirisa kwedu pachedu, pamwe nezvevamwe, uye kuchinjisa maitiro edu nenzira kwayo: kugona kwepamoyo kunoita basa rinokosha muhupenyu hwedu hwezuva nezuva hupenyu. Ivo vanotigonesa kuita zvisarudzo zvinobatsira pakugara kwedu pachedu uye kwevaezera redu, uye kutanga hukama navo. Kukurudzira kukura kwavo muvana, kubva achiri mudiki, saka zvakakosha.

Aya hunyanzvi anogona kuwanikwa uye akadzidziswa zvakananga kana zvisina kunanga. Vanogona zvakare kudzidza mumamiriro ezvinhu akasiyana siyana, akadai sechikoro, mhuri kana yekuzorora. Nekunyengedza maitiro ekuratidzira senge maitiro ekuzvidza, iwo mutungamiriri wekudzivirira kwekudzivirira kwemaitiro ekusanzwisisana, kureva, maitiro ayo anokonana kune vamwe uye nzanga. Chikwata chinobva kuUnie chakadzidza kukura kwehunyanzvi uhu mune yakatarwa mamiriro: Holiday misasa.

'"Aya makamuri okusangana munzvimbo dzekushamwaridzana uye kuyedza, kunze kwemhuri, anowanzoitika nguva dzese dzezuva nezuva. Vanosanganisira kushamwaridzana kwehupenyu hwese. Ivo vanosanganisira kushamwaridzana nevakuru nevamwe vana, vakapfuma mukudzidza zvisina kurongwa. Isu Aida kuratidza kuti mamiriro akadai akafaririsa kukudziridzwa kwehunyanzvi hwemagariro, "anotsanangura kudaro purofesa ehugi

Altruism Enter

Kunyanya, iyo timu yehusi yaida kuziva kuti kutora chikamu ichi mumisasa iyi kunogona kuwedzera kugutsikana kwevana uye kuzvivimba. Vaongorori vaidawo kuziva kuti zvinhu zvakananga here, sekufamba neshamwari - vaigona kutora chikamu zvakanyanya kana zvishoma zvinobatsira. Kuti uzive, ivo vaishandisa muenzaniso wevana makumi maviri nemashanu kusvika gumi nematanhatu kusvika 16 musasa uye vasiri vatori vepamusasa-vakakumbirwa kuti vapedze mubvunzo wakaenzana.

"Pakati pemibvunzo yakabvunzwa ndezve, semuenzaniso, 'waizobatsira sei mutorwa kuwana nzira yake?' Kana kuti 'waizobatsira sei shamwari nebasa rake remumba?' Mhinduro dzinogona kubva 'dzisingaiti' 'ku "kazhinji' pachiyero chishanu," anotsanangura kuti Yves Gerber, kutsvagisa uye kudzidzisa uye ph.D. Mudzidzi pachikamu chezvidzidzo zvesesainzi efuma yePsychology uye dzidzo sainzi yeunio, uye wekutanga munyori wekudzidza. Vana vaifanira kupindura mibvunzo iyi pane zviitiko zviviri: pakutanga uye kupera kwenguva yemusasa.

'"Mhinduro dzevana 145 vakatora mumisasa vakaenzaniswa nevaya vevana vane gumi nevaviri mu" boka revadzidzi' vakaratidzei mune iyi mwero wechiitiko chekutarisisa mune yekutanga Uye kuderera kwekupedzisira, "anodaro Jennifer Malsert, Senior Resenti Associal Associal Sangano rePsychology yePsychology nedzidziso uye nedzidziso yakakosha dzidzo yeyunivhesiti yedzidzo yemudzidzisi, Mamiriro eVaud, uye Co-munyori wezvidzidzo.

Yakagadzikana kuzvivimba

Mhinduro idzi zvakare dzinoita zvakare kuti dziite kuti rive neyakanaka ruzivo munguva yakapfuura, kana kutora chikamu mune urwu rudzi rwechiitiko neshamwari, farira kuvandudzwa kwekusagutsikana mune izvi mamiriro. '"Kana iri nhanho yekuzvivimba, isu tichaona kuti yakaramba yakagadzikana mumapoka ese evana. Izvo zvinokwanisika kuti zvinhu izvi zvakanyatsooneka Iva wakanangana zvakakwana kuti uongorore izvi, "anotsanangura kudaro Yves Gerber.

Mhedzisiro yekudzidza uku kwekutanga inoratidza kubatsira kwemisasa yezhizha sechishandiso kukudziridza mwero-mupfungwa. Ivo vanoratidza kuti mamiriro emisasa iyi, kunyange pamusoro pekugara kwemazuva gumi kusvika gumi nemashanu, anofurira hunyanzvi aya nekuwedzera zvinangwa zvekufamba. "Nhanho inotevera ichave yekufunda nguva yezvakanaka zvinowanikwa